LifeStyle: How To Choose a Priority?

September 17, 2007
It is so difficult to choosed once between many important things.We always decided that we did not like after.Its happens in sudden time,when a decision try pushing you to result an activity. even we have fully thought about one decision for long time ago, that is face into untrue thing, we dislike.Imagine,after we choosed once between other,showing a satisfaction,comfortable and well felling,fall into an easy life to enjoyed.

The question is: How to choose a priority between priorities?
1.If you have a list,or haven't,make it!
Note in list,what things you have.You will choose its one.Read the list,three times minimum.Rearrange the list position,which one is important than other.Second,rearrange,which one is more important than other,erase the last three things in list below (if you have more than five in your list).Third,rearrange,which one is most important.Choose it!!
If you cannot take a right decision with this simple list,try next way.....

2.See and Feel the Effects
Is a priority has effects?Yes it is.
Let see,in your priority list,you made those because you thought its important.But you must choose which one is most important.How a priority affect you in life?A priority impacts you in future,job,money,connection,community,family,environment,couple,shy,sick,confidence and your religion.So what is the most strenght impact you?If you choosed one priority,will less other impacts,those are not so important.

Case sample:
You are 24 years old,interior and young designer,working eight hours perday and you are tired,and want to enjoy this weekend.Yo got three invitations,one promise,one plan.
*Neighbour invitation,they also invite others
*Friend invitation,she will open a boutique,also invite the designers
*New movie release invitation,the actress is your idol
*Promise to your lovely man/lady,acompany him/her to the fourth dinner this week
*Massage and spa plan,you did not doing this last month

You make a list:
*Massage and spa
*Meet your lovely
*Watching a new movie
*Go to the boutique
*Meet the neighbours

Think about the effect and the impact:
*body refreshing---nice weekend
*he or she will happy---routinity
*you will being a follower---just for a moment
*meet with designer---job promotion
*talking all night---ordinary life

So you can see what is the most important thing will impacts you,its number 4---carrier improve.

3.What thing can comfort you,disscuss with your closer one (friend,couple,family)
I dont suggest this way,i hope you can make your own decision,your own impact and effect,your own responsibility cause choosed it

Happy to choose?

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