Woman on top: how to ride a man ?

September 5, 2007


Woman on top making love position can be not only very gratifying for a woman but also one of the most favorite guy's position.
The reason is simple: being the receiver in the process of making love, he can simply enjoy the ride while watching the beautiful curves of female body.
However, being on top doesn't only mean you sit there and move. In order to derive most pleasure from top making love position, woman and men need to find the best comfortable and enjoyable angle to move.

There are a lot of variations to woman on top making love position. You can choose some of them:
1. Man lies on his back, woman leans forward towards man's face, resting on her hands.
2. Man lies on his back, woman faces away from man.
3. Man is sitting with his legs wide open, woman embraces him sitting on top and facing him.
4. Man is sitting, woman is sitting on him facing away.
5. Man lies on his back, woman is lying on him with her legs along his body.
6. Man is sitting with his legs wide open, woman lies on her back ,facing the man, resting on her elbows and her legs around man's waist.

All these variations are important insofar both of you feel comfortable. For a woman, finding the right angle can be crucial to increase her pleasure and that is individual thing.

Advantages of "woman on top" position
Better stimulation of woman's sensitive zones: clitoris, G-spot.
Many women ask why orgasm never happens during making love. Female orgasm results when many factors are involved. Clitoral teasing may be one of the most crucial factors for woman to orgasm easier and faster.

When she is on top, she can add clitoral stimulation either by leaning so that the clitoris would be stimulated by pubic bone or a man could play with woman's clit to speed up her orgasm.
Talking about G-spot, here the making love position is about the right angle and motion. Of course, it doesn't mean you should bend his Mr P in all the possible directions.

As the G-spot is located on the front vaginal wall, the best position would be the one that lets male Mr P reach G-spot which is better achieved with woman either facing away from man or bending forward, but again it's a matter of individual preferences.

Better control over the depth and rhythm of penetration.

When a man penetrates a woman he is the one to set the pace. But sometimes this rhythm doesn't appeal to a woman who for example needs it slow or otherwise wilder. When she is on top, she can experiment with a variety of pleasure positions and enjoy the rhythm she chooses herself.
One of the most interesting techniques in this position is to squeeze pelvic muscles around the penis while penetrating. For a man tightening muscles around his penis create a nice stimulating feeling.

For a man, the most pleasure is derived when his Mr P is better stimulated. Some men find it pleasant when a woman thrusts his Mr P  in up-down motion, others like woman's slow sliding motions. In fact, a man has less control in this position that means woman should master the art of "riding". A man can help his partner by holding her hips and guiding her to the most pampering rhythm.


Visual Stimulation
For many men the pleasure derived from looking at their beloved woman's body is as equally arousing to the s and e and x and ual act itself. Give him the possibility to view the process, embracing him, touching and kissing to create that special atmosphere between both of you.

11 comment:

Anonymous said...

I've been having sex with my boyfriend for 2 months now. He always wants me to "ride" him but I'm just really shy to do it. Mainly he would start of with guiding me through but when he stop I just get stuck and dont know where to go from there. What can I do to change this from happening?

Anonymous said...

Well when i have sex i feel the need to ride but im too shy about it. My boyfriend said he would guide me through it but i fear i wont be doing it right. i have never rode anyone before so i'm kinda lost at what to do. Help? New years will be here and i wanna bring in the new year with something NEW ;)

Anonymous said...

i know exactly how you guys feel. i cant ride either or its just that i kinda skipped the high school years of experimenting and always just let the guy be on top. i feel stupid and less than because he always wants me on top. i have no problem w oral sex but when he like jump on im like ah.... no you. maybe i should try watching some porn and practice. But it almost just makes me wanna not have sex i know i could master it but cuz im not perfect at it i give up in fear of looking dumb. and yes this is what makes me shy. im pretty sure if i could ride like a cow girl i could have soooooo soooo much more fun.

Anonymous said...

anonymous
riding a man is very easy and if u wanna hear secreats from your man just talk to him while u r riding

Anonymous said...

GIrks no matter what u do u won't look dumb try to make it as pleasurable 4 yourself as possible and I think he will be equally as pleased

love said...

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Female said...

woman on top position is very romantic, especially in a face to face close up position. it's a blessing for us a woman, we deserved to enjoy it this blessing from our beloved man. :x http://make-love-woman-on-top.blogspot.com

Anonymous said...

Ohhhh....i really enjoy when i'm on the top position. I really enjoy riding my man! He loves it too....

Anonymous said...

i also find it super hard to ride my man,i try bt it seems i keep doing it wrong all the time.

Michelle said...

Its comes naturally with a bit of practice you just need to rid yourself of your sexual inhibitions. As you get on top and insert him in to yourself gyrate forwards and backwards or go up and down on top of him. You could also try a few other positions or you can use his hands to guide you. Your man can hold on to your hips and help with the movements until you get in to the rhythm of doing it yourself. Learn more at : Http://howtorideyourman.com

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