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Showing posts with label About Men. Show all posts

Men Changing After 40

August 15, 2010
It's not like I found myself suddenly getting older, or as if it happened overnight. I still like a good workout, and find riding my bike one of the most relaxing things I can do. But when it comes to making changes, such as losing weight or increasing muscle mass, it is getting harder to do as I get older. By God's grace, many of the changes in getting older are great. My children have grown up to become my friends. And my wife handles most of the worrying and fretting (although I do a small amount for myself so I can get the occasional dirty look and can feel proud when it all works out).

Another good change is that all the hair that was determined to leave has already gone, leaving me that same good look every day in the mirror.Besides, if I really want a new look I could always use the curling iron on some of those unbelievably long eyebrows!
However, the greatest change of all is that I have grandchildren. This is when we realized we had to make changes if we were going to spend quality time with our grandchildren and not be exhausted.

Two years ago, my wife and I were riding 150 miles a week-15 miles a day to work, a 30-mile ride on the weekend, and a 10-mile ride several times a week just for fun! Living in Indiana, you can only ride bikes about 8 months a year, at best. So our winter hibernation began. After a long winter layoff, I found myself out of shape, 20 pounds overweight and unmotivated.
The next year was on again, off again...never really getting a well-sustained routine all season. We knew we had to find a way to keep ourselves motivated-not just to get in shape, but to stay in shape.

One big problem is that I'm not a person who likes to be on a diet. In fact, I like to eat. I've found out that I'm a stress eater, which makes losing weight even harder. So my first step was to find a way to be accountable to myself and to others-especially my wife.
Second was to find a good diet, which for me (for the most part) turned out to be just watching what I eat and cutting back. When my wife and I went out to eat we began to order only one meal and split it. At first, any meal would do. But as our metabolism speeded up, only a larger meal would satisfy. The waiters and waitresses were very understanding, and treated us well (we still tip as generously as before). I've also learned that if I eat only when I am hungry, all food is good-even fruits and vegetables.

Third was to find a good workout that I liked, which was rather easy because I don't just like riding bikes, I really love it! Last, we wanted to find a place to get all of this under one roof.
One thing life has taught me is...if you want to get a job done, you have to have the right tools. We already had the bikes and exercise equipment. Then we found a way to beat the heat, rain, and cold weather. We took our bikes inside and put them on our new indoor stationary cycling units (like the Olympic bicyclists train with), which allow us to ride in front of the TV. The cost of two units were less than 1/4 the cost of a good treadmill or exercise bike.

Then, my son showed us one of the best tools I have ever had...a CD called Workoutware. I had come to the point in my life where I wanted to make a permanent change. What I did with my life mattered...what I ate, how often I worked out, and how my body was responding to the workout, my heart rate, body measurements, and percentage of body fat were all things I had to look at, if I wanted to have any energy to play with my grandchildren. That's exactly what this CD offered-a closer inspection of me and my habits!

After one day of keeping close track of my diet, I knew there had to be changes. Snacks were killing me. Keeping track of body and weight measurements was a humiliating starting point. But that's exactly what it was...a starting point toward a healthier life. So I began to record everything.
Time is always a big problem in our lives, and keeping track of my diet took time. But once I established a pattern or routine, I could quickly sit down and record information once a week. When typing in the information less often, I found it too easy to slip back into old, bad habits. Accountability is everything, and the more people you are accountable to, the easier it is for everyone to stick with it. The group accountability also puts some fun into it.
At my age, I now take a number of vitamins, amino acids, and things to ease a variety of ailments. At the cost of these medicine man elixirs, I am tight enough (moneywise) to want to know if they really help. The software program allows me to keep track of my supplements and includes a place for me to take notes.

I had some problems with my knees and elbows...actually, I was getting stiff joints all over, so I started taking sam-E. My wife said she noticed I had a better temperament and was much more pleasant to be around (Sam-E improves both mood and joints!). At a buck a day, I could have bought her flowers, got the same response, and in real short time been money ahead. But my joints improved so fast that I felt better in less than a month.

I also need to keep track of body stats and workouts. If I'm going to discipline myself, I want to know it's working-like seeing the positive effects of taking my sam-E. So I want to have a record of how many inches it is around my belly. If I lose an inch, there, I know my workout is working. If I don't lose in a reasonable amount of time, I know I need to adjust my workout. Likewise, if I'm trying to gain muscle, I want to watch the inches around my arms and legs increase.
It is also important to track my heart rate and watch it ease down as the workouts improves my fitness. I've seen my bike riding grow in distance, as the elapsed time grows shorter. The amount of weight I can lift gets heavier. It's all there in my record keeping-gains and losses look pretty impressive when I hit the button that turns them into graphs!

I am at the point in life where I have no desire to be a superstar. I do, however, want to grow old with dignity, and I want to love my wife, children, and grandchildren in a meaningful way. I want more than the emotion of love. I want to be able to throw a ball to my grandson-not just watch. I want to help my kids with their house projects; to ride, walk and even run with my wife. I want to be able to bow the knees if my family needs my prayers.

Love is a verb, and I want the actions in my life to prove it-in your life, too. I write this to share some of the things that have helped me...my bike, my stationary bike unit for riding indoors, my "curling iron" (an in-house joke for my curl bar), and my Workoutware software, which is as important as any piece of exercise equipment I have.
May God bless your workout and keep you safe and fit!

Tips for Feeling Fresh after Watching FootBall on TV all Night

June 12, 2010
Hey, now is the time for World Cup 2010 in South Africa. People eyes in the world directly focus to the great football matches in the world. Not only men, also women, even kids watching their favourite team play and fight for the champion tittle.
In some places or countries, people watch these games on television at night because of time differentiation. It is no problem if you watch the game on evening or early night, but how if you can watching the match on mid night or late night almost to the morning.
Here are tips for you who watching World Cup 2010 and still want to feeling fresh and fit at the morning after.

* Finish all your works that is so important for next day job, even a small presentation or tiny homework. Just finish its first.
* If you are back afternoon from office, take your time with your family and permit to your partner (wife/husband)that you want to watching World Cup 2010 South Africa games, and do not reject what she/he needs.
* Take healthy dinner with full carbohydrate,its to prevent you from fatty cookies or junk foods, if you are hungry at night, eat only fruits and less sugar drink, better if you have oatmeals and low callorie milks.
* Three to five hours deep and undisturb sleep is better than long time sleep with disturbing things. So,if there is time for slep before the game, use its.
* If you must to drink supplement or coffee,and such energy drinks, always drink lot of waters to neutralyze.
* Go sleep after the game is over, setting your alarm like ordinary.
* In the morning, clear all parts of your body, bath with cool water will help you feel fresh.
* Watching football on TV at home is better than you are watching the game not at home. For the fresh next,try its.
* These tips are not for you who have holiday for next day after watching World Cup 2010 South Africa at night.

Final and Champion Predictions for World Cup 2010 South Africa

June 11, 2010
To fast if we are predict for the champion of World Cup 2010 at South Africa. The match is starting today and open match by South Africa and Mexico (with live result 1-0 for Sout Africa until this article is writing).
Almost one full month to through many matches. But, i just wondering to give my predictions about World Cup 2010 Final and Champion. In group A beside home master South Africa,Uruguay, Mexico and France are big teams with experiences to World Cup and champion tittle. But here, i choose France. In group B, Argentina and Nigeria will step to second round,but i choose Argentina.
In group C,USA will following England to the next step,i choose England.In Group D will be Germany as the panzer,i choose Germany.
In group E,Netherland will warming their spirit for next champion and following by Japan. In group F,must be Italy. In group G,Brazil and Portugal together to the next level.
Between all teams those i choose, England, Argentina, Portugal and Netherland will be semifinalis
And i predict that England and Netherland will be at Final of World Cup 2010 South Africa...and the champion is...NETHERLAND :) you can believe it or no.
Welcome World Cup 2010 South Africa.


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May 22, 2008
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Ten Men's Tips for Successful and Good Dressing

April 23, 2008
Men, before you start your beautiful day. It is easy to make your dressing stay cool with confidence. Here are ten tips for your successful and good dressing.
  1. Invest in quality tailored clothing that will stand the test of time. Buy conservative suits and trousers that won't be out of style next season, and use dress shirts and accessories to personalize your fashion statement.
  2. Find a competent tailor and treat him/her very well. Proper alterations on suits, trousers and sport coats are critical to your appearance.
  3. Be a bit adventurous when matching shirts and ties. A large patterned necktie will work quite well with a small patterned dress shirt, and vice versa. For example, pair a paisley tie with a micro-check dress shirt.
  4. Make certain that your shoes are shined and appropriate for the rest of your ensemble. For example, don't wear penny loafers with a suit, or cap toe dress shoes with chinos.
  5. Do not underestimate the importance of accessorizing properly. Your belt should match your shoes and your socks should coordinate with your trousers.
  6. Make yourself "perspiration proof." Always wear an undershirt beneath your dress shirt, and carry a handkerchief to wipe perspiration from your hands or brow.
  7. Purchase a small, fold-up umbrella and keep it in your briefcase at all times. Nothing takes the crispness out of a man's appearance like an unexpected rain shower.
  8. Unless you are in a profession where artistic flair is expected, always try to err on the side of dressing too conservatively.
  9. Emulate (but do not copy) your boss, or other senior executives at your company, in your manner of dress.
  10. Never wear anything that you are not totally comfortable with. People will sense that something is not quite right.
So, let cheer your happy day.

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Sport Jackets for Men's Fashion

November 15, 2007
With more business casuals, the role of sport jackets today have become more important and at the same time versatile. It helps to perk up dressiness from extreme casual attire.We are using many different types of fabrics for the jacket so that it can easily match other mens clothing and for different seasons too. Our usual suit jackets are meant to be worn with a pair matching pants in terms of fabric. Sport coats are not meant to be so. It allows mixture of the jacket with other types of pants. Overall we should be able to feel its casualness and sporty outlook.

Therefore, the details, silhouette, and cutting are generally more relaxed and break from the traditions found in suit jackets. For example, the use of elbow patches and metal buttons.

The fabrics available among sport coats are a lot more versatile because it can incorporate more sporty patterns or even take up woolly and thin weaved fabrics.

Some examples would be houndstooth, tweed, linen and cotton fabrics. In any way, these generally look more casual from the traditionally defined finishing and formal worsted wool suit jackets.

Another important aspect is its greater tolerance to be combined with other mens clothing. It can match dress shirts to sweaters to T-shirts without appearing out of place and perfectly blend up the look by bridging casualness and dressiness.

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Men's Fashion Rules

It doesn’t matter where you are or what do you, being well dressed and looking good can never be something that’s too much to ask! There are some basic principles that especially men ignore which are simple and as natural as brushing your teeth or washing your hands but at the same time could put a suave metro sexual male like David Beckham to shame. The rules are easy to remember and the look achieved is to die for. Here's a list of tips and pointers to bear in mind while dressing up next time whether it’s for work or for that important date....

The first rule
relating to work gear is to never ever wear jeans or sneakers to work. I know not wearing jeans is still an achievable option but no sneakers! Doesn't one need comfort when one's working and walking around all the time? The answer is simple. Wear smart Italian loafers in a dark color. They are just as comfy as any other pair of sneakers but stylish as hell.
Walk around as much as you want. ....TIES are hot and should be worn more. If you are reading this article then you are fashion conscious and if you want to ace the art of dressing stylish then always wear a tie for work or for fun too. It doesn’t matter what color it is or if it even goes with your shirt. Fashion Industry's almighty Giorgio Armani says "As long as you're wearing a tie it doesn’t matter whether it matches your outfit or not. Because believe it or not you look more stylish with them than you would without them." Experiment with unconventional colors. Go bold, subtle, wild, or subdued with patterns. Stripes or dots, just about anything works.

....Work gear should be elegant and formal. A couple of black, gray, khaki, and brown chinos would work fine when mixed and matched with a number of formal shirts. If you prefer formality and propriety over comfort and ease then go for the traditional pleated straight cut pants. In these cuts colors like navy blue, military green look flattering. Flat front pants with a slight flair (boot leg) at the bottom look chic too. Avoid shirts that have prominent patterns. Try subtle colors like beige in self-prints that do not stand out. Pin-stripped shirts never go out of style. A plain crisp well-fitted shirt worn with pants that are tailor made and customized to your body forms an uncanny combo that can counter criticism from the Vogue magazine editor also.
....Socks of dark colors should be preferably worn because whites look too stark.
....Try to wear your hair neatly and to make sure its perfectly groomed use mousse or gel to make it last.
....For more important meetings make use of power dressing. Wearing a full suit for a meeting can make the right first impression. Keep the time of day and season in mind before picking out one. As against the massive belief suits aren't uncomfortable at all if they're cut well and custom made for your body. Infect you can feel so comfortable and confident at the same time in them that you'd never want to go back to your jeans and tee,
....Belt is one accessory that can make or break the entire ensemble. Go with the basics for work wear. But when you're partying there are no rules. Whatever your inner devil wants is fine. Do not hold back. Retro, contemporary or vintage all looks perfect if you have the queer eye for picking up stuff.
....Finally Leisure Wear does exist for men too. And it definitely doesn't mean boxers and a t-shirt. Wearing comfortable and beautifully made clothes will make your time even more special because you'll feel that much more better in the right clothes. Linen probably is the best fabric for leisure wear. Pants or even better pajamas of linen teamed with shirts of soft cotton or t-shirts complete the look. Linen is available in a wide variety of colors and there's a lot to experiment with.
....Smelling great will be the perfect end to a dressing ritual. Make the effort to use the same brand of after-shave, cologne, and eau de parfum. This way your fragrance lasts longer.
....Do not hesitate to wear shoes with heels if you are, well vertically challenged. Well-heeled shoes will make your pants seem more well cut.
....As a rule of thumb self-pinstriped dark colored pants will make you look taller and thinner. To flaunt a broader upper body team them with a light colored shirt.

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How To Attract Beautiful Women

November 12, 2007
Mens, are you scare to take a starting point to attract a beautiful lady?Why its beautiful:Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Just because you find a woman stunning doesn’t mean that every other guy out there does as well. Too often men assume a woman they find attractive must be constantly hounded day and night by men for dates and therefore decide not to ask her out themselves. Some attractive women are intimidating to men and therefore they spend a lot of time single because guys just can’t get up the nerve to ask them out.

How to Attract Beautiful Women

....Be neutral in your approach. Be friendly, but don’t fawn after her. Treat her like a normal person. Don’t be arrogant or rude either, and only use humor if you know you’re really good at it (remember everyone has their own sense of humor).
....Don’t rush in blind. Observe as much as you can about her before you speak to her. Use something about her to start a conversation. If she’s carrying a book ask if she’s enjoying it. If she looks lost ask if you can help with directions.
....Ask for her help. If you see a beautiful woman at a store who you’d like to talk to ask her for her opinion or help. Try not to make up an elaborate lie that could get you into trouble (like making up siblings you don’t have). It’s best to stick to something you really would like to know about – like a cooking, wine, or fashion tip.
....Once you start up a conversation with her pay careful attention to her body language. If she keeps her words hurried and her body pointed away from you she’s in a hurry to move on to with something else, if instead she gives you her full attention, and leans her head to one side while talking to you she may be flirting and you can ask her out for coffee to extend the conversation.
....Be a good listener. It’s said that men are attracted through their eyes and women through their ears – but that doesn’t mean the man has to run away with the conversation. Too many men use the first conversation (or email) with a woman to brag about his accomplishments in order to impress a woman, and sadly, the more attractive a woman is to a man, the more he’ll often brag. Don’t. Do your best to have the conversation be a good volley back and forth. Don’t ask so many questions she feels she’s being interviewed, but don’t let her talk so much that she’s afraid you actually have nothing to say.
....Up your game to match the women you want. Don’t think a woman is going to discover the real you under your out of date clothing and sloppy appearance – if you attract a woman who wants to make you over realize it’s not necessarily going to be in a manner that you like. Clothes and don’t make the man, but they give him a chance.
....Don’t rush at her. If you had a great conversation in a store, or over coffee, or on a bus, or in the rain or on a train…that doesn’t mean that she’s now your girlfriend and you own her. Or that you should shower her with devotion. Don’t send her flowers, don’t call her three times in two days, and do not send her several emails in one day. When dealing with a woman you find amazingly attractive do all you can to keep your cool and your equilibrium. Remember you’re a great catch too. If you promised you’d call later in the week to see if she’s up for the concert on Sunday call her on Thursday – don’t call her on Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday. Ask her on dates, and be your best on the dates. Make them fun and different. Take her taste into account, not what you think would be “ideal.” In between the first few dates have very little contact with her. Keep the emails short and sweet, and keep some mystery about you.

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Men's Fashion Mistakes

November 10, 2007
Men's Fashion sometime strange when he need hurry to choose something.But,if they are always not care about their own fashion,it will be a big mistake.While women make just as many questionable style choices (tight jeans with muffin tops, anyone?) as men, there’s not as much help out there for guys who are innocently undermining their look. Although many fashion slips apply equally to both sexes, there are several that are very male-specific. Since it’s true that people’s first impression of us is often based on appearance, we decided to spend some time browsing workplaces, stores, cafes, and bars to uncover the most common fashion mistakes men make and let you in on how to avoid them and improve your personal presentation.

Here are some views:

French cuffs without cuff links
Since it’s not necessary to wear most dress shirts with cuff links, many men seem to be unaware that shirts with French cuffs actually do need to be accompanied by cuff links. Essentially, French cuffs without cuff links are like a Playboy without the centerfold. If you have a shirt with French cuffs, cuff links are really the icing on the cake and will enhance your appearance by making you seem more presentable and smartly turned out. As well, since French-cuffed shirts are generally worn on more formal occasions, or at least in a business environment, the purpose of wearing such a shirt is to look polished -- a feat that is hard to accomplish when your sleeves are flapping about.

For those times when you need to dress like a gentleman or want to make an elegant style statement, French cuffs with some sweet cuff links peeking out from under the sleeve of your blazer are the way to go. And while it’s true that in recent years some very famous celebs have been spotted sporting French cuffs sans cuff links, unless you’re Brad Pitt, you just won’t be able to get away with that in real life since everyone will just assume you don’t know how to dress yourself.

Make your own suit
Creating your own suit refers to purchasing pants and jackets as separates, and then combining them with little regard for whether the two items can actually be worn together or not. Just because both your jacket and pants are black, it does not mean they belong together. Fabric, cut and hue variations all play a huge role in determining whether or not two separately purchased items will complement each other. A wool blazer, for instance, will look terrible and cheap when paired with polyester dress pants and vice versa. If you’re going to wear a suit, please make sure you bought the pieces as a set or you run the risk of seeming slightly ridiculous.

Sneakers with everything
Before you get angry and start leaving nasty comments, let me explain what I mean: While wearing uber-cool sneakers with a suit can be hip and very attractive, it’s not OK to refuse to remove your sneakers and insist that they go with everything you own. They don’t, and there are certainly times when a dressier look is called for and even preferred over something funkier. Plus, it’s a little boring to wear the same thing over and over. Part of having personal style is to mix things up occasionally and show others you can successfully work a variety of looks. Of course, it’s not necessary to own as many pairs of shoes as most girls do, but you should own more than a couple of pairs of sneakers, and you should certainly own at least one pair of dress shoes. You’ll need them for formal occasions or even for frequenting more upscale bars and clubs where a dress code is reinforced.

Too much hair product
Though others have condemned it before, this crime against fashion is such a frequent and heinous one that it bears repeated mentioning. Using too much of any kind of product in your hair results in gunky hair, and no girl wants to run her hands through a head full of gel. Think about it: If the situation were reversed, you most certainly wouldn’t want to have stiff, crunchy or gooey locks between your hands. Both sexes prefer soft, touchable hair, so find a way to make your style work without winding up with helmet head.

In addition, it’s really not healthy for your hair to be doused in hundreds of chemicals on a daily basis, so lighten up. For gels and conditioners, you really only need a dime-size amount for your entire head. Use no more than a large marble-size amount of mousse and when it comes to hairspray, hold the can a good five inches from your tresses, making sure to mist only very lightly. Putties and waxes should also be used very sparingly in order to avoid a flattened, greasy look. If you’re really at a loss on how to style your hair without half a bottle of product, ask your stylist to show you next time you go in for a hair cut.

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Shaving Techniques

November 8, 2007
Shaving is a Men's thing.When male hormones spread up into the part of body,we can find facial hair.Shaving is a way to make it loss.And its look tidy and clean face to the men.Sometime it could be interesting if you do not know how to shaving.Let we showed it to you.Applying the quality products, appropriate shaving techniques and post-shaving skin care can assist the men to look fine and have the good feeling. An excellent and clean shave along with the correct after shave and facial wash moisturizer products will help in acquiring best health of the skin. After that, one can have a pleasant morning. In order to have close shave, one can pursue the following techniques for shaving such as:

Make Sure the Beard is Comprehensively Wet
One of the basic points to have a great clean shave without having any skin rash or irritation is that one should have a comprehensive wet beard. Moisture is absorbed by the facial hair up to thirty percent of its length. It is best if one takes a shower before shaving as it makes the beard moisturized. One should apply a hot moisturized towel on the face after washing the face and leave it for few minutes. One should never use the cold water for shaving.

Apply a Quality Shaving Cream
One should apply that shaving cream which contains a high concentration of moisturizers and lubricants. If the best shaving creams are used, they make rich creamy foam. The main purpose of the shaving creams is to invigorate the face and make easy for the razor to slide efficiently without creating much effort. One should leave the shaving cream for about 1 minute to make the beard wet and soft.

Use the Razor Efficiently
One should shave perfectly in the direction of the growth of the beard. One should begin with the edges, then shift to the moustache region and finally to the chin. Then use the excellent razor on the face for shaving and have a clean shave.

Use a Quality Razor and Change the Blades
One should use a sharp quality razor blade for shaving which will help in making a close shave without any effort. If one finds toughness in the beard, immediately change the blades after 3-5 shaves. One should always wash the blade using the hot water before shaving.

Using a Good Quality Shaving Brush
Shaving brush is the best tool with which one can obtain the close shave. Every shaving brush should contain the bristles which should have the perfect balance between the resistance and softness to lift up the beard.

Cleanse and Soothe After Shaving
After having a clean shave, one should wash the face with the cleansing and soothing facial washes which contain witch hazel and tea tree oil and using the warm water.

Then one should wash the face using the cold water and make it dry with a clean towel.

Aftershave Moisturizers
After the shave has been finished, apply the moisturizing cream or balm which will make the skin of the face refreshed and cool. This is the best method to make the skin calm and to exchange the lost moisture.

By following these techniques, one can have a clean and close shave everyday in the morning.

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Man as Metrosexual

November 3, 2007
A new popular icon is Metrosexual,this is about men.In simple mean is a man that care its self and treat like women,but it is not really true when you say that man pretending as woman.
Let we see what is metrosexual:...is a modern, usually single man in touch with himself and his feminine side;...grooms and buffs his head and body, which he drapes in fashionable clothing both at work or before hitting an evening hotspot;...has discretionary income to stay up to date with the latest hairstyles, the newest threads, and the right shaped shoes;
...confuses some guys when it comes to his sexuality;
...makes these same guys jealous of his success with the ladies -- for many metros, to interact with women is to flirt;
...impresses the women who enjoy his company with the details that make the man;

Among them:
* his appreciation for literature, cinema, or other arts
* his flair for cooking
* his savoir faire in choosing the perfect wine and music
* his eye for interior design

...is a city boy or, if living a commute away from downtown, is still urbane, if not rightly urban;
...enjoys reading men's magazines...

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Men Lifestyle: 5 Color Coordination Rules

September 24, 2007
White shirts go with everything
When all else fails, raise a white flag. A white shirt works with absolutely anything you have, especially those uniquely colored items you’re not sure how to match. Couple it with a bright, patterned tie or wear it under a pastel-colored V-neck sweater; either way you're looking sharp and perfectly coordinated. A classic, well-fitting white shirt is timeless, worth its weight in gold, and sure to keep you on the front line of fashion.

Gray complements bright colors
Use gray to control any experiment with color. Great for dulling down vivid colors, gray works well with almost any color out there.So, if you want to test the waters or add a punch of color without going overboard, use something gray (pants, sweater, jacket) to manage the boldness of stronger, brighter colors. Not only will you earn kudos for your strategic stylish use of color, but gray itself is a smart, sophisticated color that’s cool, classic and chic.

Don’t wear colored pants
No matter who you are, resist the urge to wear colored pants. Pants (slacks, chinos, jeans, etc.) are the one area of your wardrobe where you should always resist a color infusion. Loudly colored pants are clownish and obnoxious; never should your pants be more attention-grabbing than a shirt or tie. Since pants provide the foundation for every outfit, they should always appear understated, polished and refined: blue jeans and neutral-colored slacks only.

Wear different colors of the same value
For best results, all the colors in any one outfit should match in terms of their value. As a basic color concept, “value” represents the degree of lightness or darkness expressed in every color. One helpful trick is to imagine how the colors you’re using would appear in a black-and-white photo; colors that would have a similar gray scale are the ones to combine. Or, most obvious of all, you can simply pair bright colors with bright colors, pastels with pastels, etc.

Use complementary colors
Pull in countless compliments by pairing complementary colors. Colors directly opposite one another on the color wheel are considered complementary: red and green, yellow and purple, blue and orange. Matching complementary colors together is a sign of a confident, knowledgeable dresser, and doing so creates an impressive, color-rich palette. Go for gusto and wear an elegant orange tie with a tasteful blue checked shirt for a modern, sophisticated look.

Six Habbits of Successful Fathers

September 11, 2007
It’s an unfortunate fact of life that parenthood comes with no instructions. It can be tough to balance everything in life, especially since every father-child relationship has its own unique challenges. Although there are no clear-cut methods to successful parenthood, there are some habits you can develop as a father to ensure that you are prioritizing the right things, and to guarantee that your family sees you as a real hero.
1- Being consistent
It may seem like children love the inconsistency of chaos, but what kids really need the most is a solid structure to learn and grow from. For that reason, consistency in parenting is vital to a child's sense of security, and integral to their behavioral development.

There are two important aspects to behaving consistently as a father. The first is to ensure that what you say is actually what you do. Every child needs to believe she has a dependable father, so if you promise you’ll make it to the soccer game or take her to the zoo or make her favorite dinner, it’s important to follow through no matter what comes up in the meantime. If your child believes your word, trust will soon follow. The second side to consistency is structure in discipline.

Remember that your kids aren’t perfect -- despite what you may think -- and they need guidance. It can be hard to discipline your children because you’re ready to stand at their defense no matter what. But remember that rules and structure are important in life and the earlier they learn that, the easier their lives will be. Rules are there for a reason and you need to make sure your children understand this.

2- Scheduling family recreation
Although it's necessary to work hard all week, you also need to plan some fun activities for downtime and stick to them. It is far too easy to just assume that family time will come naturally when the weekend arrives. Unfortunately, work spillover, visits from family members or home improvement projects -- just to name a few scenarios -- can easily take that time away.

Not to mention that as your kids develop their own social schedules, they’ll quickly let quality time with their families slip away. For this reason, advanced planning is crucial in maintaining this important aspect of your family life. Just like you’ll keep New Year’s resolutions more often if you write them down as a promise, making appointments with your family will make time with them a priority -- for both you and them.

3- Keeping stress to yourself
This can be difficult, but the fact is there are better outlets for your stress than your children. Kids shouldn’t have to be burdened with adult troubles. They have enough to deal with just being kids; growing, learning, exploring, and evolving. Rather than sharing your difficulties with them, keep your time with them about them. Try to keep your work or financial stress to yourself and don’t let it affect your attitude when you’re around your kids.
In order to do this, find a different outlet for your stress that you can use before you see them. Go to the gym on the way home and let it out on a punching bag or stop at your favorite coffee shop and spend a few minutes unwinding with the newspaper. Whatever it takes, your kids will appreciate seeing a fresh face and a positive attitude when you get home.

Also, consider how your kids might be able to help you calm down. You don’t always have to be doing something in order to have an impact on your kids. Rather than focusing on activities all the time, recognize that sometimes naps in front of the television can be just as touching for your kids and can do wonders in helping to bring you back down to earth.

4- Staying involved
Being involved with your kids is often twisted to mean that you ought to do the morning carpool and attend soccer games. Although this is true, there is much more to involvement with your kids than just being a personal taxi and cheerleader to them. Watch the soccer game, but also listen to school stories. Hear what your kids have to say, know their interests and their friends. Being involved seems like a no-brainer when it comes to parenthood, but it’s so easy to forget.

If your kids feel important enough to garner your interest, this will boost their confidence, their trust in you and their willingness to share the details of their own lives with you. All these things will give you more opportunities to guide your children and keep them out of trouble. They will also serve as invaluable memories when your kids are all grown up. The childhood years will pass quickly for you, but your kids will remember how you spent them forever.

5- Teaching
There’s something especially touching about learning. Learning something new improves self-confidence and is a lot of fun. For the teacher, there is a special feeling of pride in seeing how you helped create ability. If you show your kids how to do things you will create a special bond between the two of you. You may think you don’t know much, but whatever tidbits you can pass along will be much treasured by your kids. Do you play guitar? Are you a master at crosswords? Can you change the oil in the car? Your kids may learn this stuff in life anyway, but if you're the teacher, they'll not only remember the skill, they'll remember the great teacher who gave them that knowledge.

6- Creating family rituals
Because kids are so impressionable, structure can be very important to how they learn and grow. It can also instill a sense of importance in what goes on in the home. Establish a firm supper time when you all sit together at the table, a time for a story before bed, game night or even an evening where the entire family watches a television show together. Doing this will ensure that the event will be known as “family time” and that it will stick out as something sacred for your children.

from askmen.com (article and photo)
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6 Kebiasaan Ayah yang Berhasil

Suatu kenyataan yang tidak bisa dipungkiri bahwa tidak ada suruhan untuk menjadi orang tua.Mungkin sudah menjadi keseimbangan dalam kehidupan,khususnya hubungan Ayah dan Anak yang menjadi tantangan unik tersendiri.Walaupun tidak ada metoda yang pasti
untuk menjadi orang tua yang berhasil,namun ada beberapa kebiasaan yang harus dikembangkan sebagai seorang ayah,untuk meyakinkan bahwa sang ayah bisa memprioritaskan hal mana yang terpenting,dan untuk menjamin anggapan kalau keluarga anda akan menganggap anda sebagai seorang pahlawan.

1.Konsisten lah
Mungkin kelihatannya anak-anak menyukai hal yang tidak jelas,tapi yang sangat dibutuhkan oleh anak-anak adalah suatu hal yang jelas saat dia belajar dan tumbuh.Untuk alasan tersebut,jadi orang tua yang konsisten adalah hal yang penting agar anak merasa aman,termasuk dalam lingkungan berkembangnya mereka.Ada dua aspek penting agar menjadi seorang ayah yang konsisten.Pertama,yakinkan apa yang anda katakan adalah apa yang anda perbuat.

Setiap anak butuh kepercayaan kalau dia punya ayah yang bisa diharapkan,jadi apabila anda berjanji untuk bermain bola atau mengantar dia ke kebun binatang atau membuatkan makan malam favoritnya,sangat penting untuk meyakinkan akan benar-benar dilakukan dan tidak ada hal lain yang bisa membatalkannya.Jika anak percaya dengan kata-kata anda, maka keyakinan akan muncul.Yang kedua adalah struktur kedisiplinan..Ingat,bahwa anak anda tidak sempurna---disamping yang anda kira--dan mereka butuh bimbingan.Sangat susah untuk menerapkan disiplin pada anakkarena anda harus siap dalam pembelaan dirinya.Tapi ingat bahwa peraturan itu sangat penting dalam hidup dan dia belajar itu dari awal,maka selanjutnya akan mudah.Peraturan memiliki alasan dan anda harus meyakinkan mereka sampai mengerti.

2- Jadwalkan Liburan Keluarga
Meskipun anda perlu kerja sepanjang minggu,anda juga harus punya rencana untuk bersenang-senang untuk beberapa saat dan bersenang-senganlah bersama mereka.Susah2 mudah untuk menganggap bahwa waktu untuk keluarga akan datang dengan sendirinya apabila akhir minggu tiba.Sayangnya,pekerjaan menumpuk,kunjunagn anggota keluarga atau proyek perbaikan rumah---hanya dengan sebutan lain---menghilangkan waktu bersenang-sengan anda.

Bukan mengatakan bahwa anak anda harus membuat jadwal sosialnya sendiri, mereka akan sangat cepat melewatkan waktu berharga bersama keluarga mereka menjauh.Untuk alasan ini,perencanaan yang matang sangat krusial dalam menjaga aspek penting ini dalam keluarga anda.Seperti anda akan menghadapi tahun baru seringkali anda akan membuat janji dengan mereka,membuat jadwal dengan keluarga akan menjadikan waktu berkumpul bersama mereka sebagai prioritas.

3- Cukup Anda saja yang stress
Ini memang sulit,tapi faktanya anda akan lebih baik mengahdapi stress dibanding anak anda.Anak tidak boleh memiliki permasalahan yang dimiliki orang dewasa.Mereka cukup hanya sebagai anak:tumbuh,belajar,mencari dan mengembangkan sesuatu.Daripada membagi kesulitan anda dengan mereka,lebih baik menghabiskan waktu anda bersama mereka.Jaga agar pekerjaan dan masalah finansial hanya untuk anda dan jangan hal ini akan mempengaruhi sikap anda apabila anda berada di dekat anak anda.

Dalam hal ini,cari tempat lain untuk menghilangkan masalah anda sebelum anda menjumpai anak-anak anda.Pergi ke tempat fitnes sebelum pulang ke rumah dan lampiaskan masalah anda ke sak tinju atau berhenti dulu di warung kopi kesuakaan anda dan habiskan beberapa menit dengan membaca koran.Apapun yang anda lakukan, anak-anak anda akan mengahargai anda dengan wajah yangs egar dan sikap yang positif apabila anda pulang.

Juga,ingat mungkin saja anak anda bisa membantu menenangkan anda.Anda tidak harus melakukan sesuatu yang akan mempengaruhi anak-anak anda.Daripada terlalu fokus dengan pekerjaan sepanjang waktu,ingat bahwa kadang-kadang duduk di depan televisi dan sentuhlah anak anda dan bayangkan itu akan menolong anda kembali ke BUMI.

4- Tetap terlibat
Terlibat dalam kegiatan anak anda seringkali disalahartikan bahwa anda harus berenang dalam kolam kecil dan bermain bola dengan mereka.Meskipun hal ini benar,banyak hal lagi yang bisa dikembangkan dengan anak anda dibanding sebagai supir pribadi atau pegembira buat mereka.Nonton pertandingan bola,tapi juga dengar cerita tentang sekolah.dengarkan apa yang dikatakan oleh anak anda,ketahui apa yang dia suka dan teman-temanya.Menjadi terlibat kelihatan sepertinya tidak susah dalam hal menjadi orang tua,tapi sering dilupakan.

Jika anak anda merasa sangat penting membagi cerita akan ketertarikan anda dengan kegiatannya,akan meningkatkan kepercayaan dirinya,kepercayaan terhadap anda dan keinginan untuk membagi cerita yang lebih lengkap tentang kehidupan pribadinya kepada anda.Semua ini akan memberi anda kesempatan untuk membimbing anak anda dan menjauhkan dia dari masalah.mereka juga akan mengingat kenangan saat mereka tumbuh dewasa.tahun-tahun masa kanak-kanak akan berlalu cepat dalam kehidupan anda,tapi anak anda akan mengingat waktu yang anda habiskan bersama mereka selamanya.

5- Ajarkan
TAda hal menyentuh tentang memberikan pelajaran.mempelajari sesuatu yang baru akan meningkatkan kepercayaan diri dan merupakan suatu kesenangan.untuk pengajar,ada perasaan kebanggaan melihat bagaimana anda membantu mengembangkan kemampuan seseorang.jika anada melihat anak anda bagaimana melakukan sesuatu anda akan membuat suatu wujud diantara anda berdua.mungkin anda pikir anda tidak tahu banyak tentang sesuatu hal,tapi apapun hal yang dapat anda lakukan semampu anda merupakan harta yang berharga bagi anak anda.apakah anda main gitar?apakah anda pandai bermain tebakan?dapatkah anda menukar oli di mobil?mungkin suatu saat anak anda akan mempelajari hal ini dalam kehidupan mereka,tapi jika anda gurunya,dia tidak hanya akan mengingat ketrampilannya tapi mereka akan mengingat siapa GURU TERHEBAT yang pernah mengajarkan mereka pengetahuan tersebut.

6- Buat suatu ritual keluarga
Karena anak-anak sangat impressif,sangat penting membentuk pola bagaimana dia belajar dan tumbuh.Juga dirasa penting apa yang terjadi di dalam rumah.buat suatu pertemuan pada waktu tertentu disaat anda dan semua keluarga berkumpul,waktu untuk bercerita sebelum tidur,permainan malam atau di saat seluruh anggota keluarga berkumpul menonton TV bersama.melakukann hal ini akan meyakinkan bahwa peristiwa itu dikenal sebagai "waktu keluarga" dan akan diingat sebagai suatu yang sakral bagi anak anda.

Wah selesai juga translatenya heheh
 
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