How To Attract Beautiful Women

November 12, 2007
Mens, are you scare to take a starting point to attract a beautiful lady?Why its beautiful:Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Just because you find a woman stunning doesn’t mean that every other guy out there does as well. Too often men assume a woman they find attractive must be constantly hounded day and night by men for dates and therefore decide not to ask her out themselves. Some attractive women are intimidating to men and therefore they spend a lot of time single because guys just can’t get up the nerve to ask them out.

How to Attract Beautiful Women

....Be neutral in your approach. Be friendly, but don’t fawn after her. Treat her like a normal person. Don’t be arrogant or rude either, and only use humor if you know you’re really good at it (remember everyone has their own sense of humor).
....Don’t rush in blind. Observe as much as you can about her before you speak to her. Use something about her to start a conversation. If she’s carrying a book ask if she’s enjoying it. If she looks lost ask if you can help with directions.
....Ask for her help. If you see a beautiful woman at a store who you’d like to talk to ask her for her opinion or help. Try not to make up an elaborate lie that could get you into trouble (like making up siblings you don’t have). It’s best to stick to something you really would like to know about – like a cooking, wine, or fashion tip.
....Once you start up a conversation with her pay careful attention to her body language. If she keeps her words hurried and her body pointed away from you she’s in a hurry to move on to with something else, if instead she gives you her full attention, and leans her head to one side while talking to you she may be flirting and you can ask her out for coffee to extend the conversation.
....Be a good listener. It’s said that men are attracted through their eyes and women through their ears – but that doesn’t mean the man has to run away with the conversation. Too many men use the first conversation (or email) with a woman to brag about his accomplishments in order to impress a woman, and sadly, the more attractive a woman is to a man, the more he’ll often brag. Don’t. Do your best to have the conversation be a good volley back and forth. Don’t ask so many questions she feels she’s being interviewed, but don’t let her talk so much that she’s afraid you actually have nothing to say.
....Up your game to match the women you want. Don’t think a woman is going to discover the real you under your out of date clothing and sloppy appearance – if you attract a woman who wants to make you over realize it’s not necessarily going to be in a manner that you like. Clothes and don’t make the man, but they give him a chance.
....Don’t rush at her. If you had a great conversation in a store, or over coffee, or on a bus, or in the rain or on a train…that doesn’t mean that she’s now your girlfriend and you own her. Or that you should shower her with devotion. Don’t send her flowers, don’t call her three times in two days, and do not send her several emails in one day. When dealing with a woman you find amazingly attractive do all you can to keep your cool and your equilibrium. Remember you’re a great catch too. If you promised you’d call later in the week to see if she’s up for the concert on Sunday call her on Thursday – don’t call her on Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday. Ask her on dates, and be your best on the dates. Make them fun and different. Take her taste into account, not what you think would be “ideal.” In between the first few dates have very little contact with her. Keep the emails short and sweet, and keep some mystery about you.

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